Midlothian, United Kingdom
My life has had some tragedies .How you deal with such things determines how much you suffer! One way is to "say it's Not Fair" this adds a personal level and this increases your suffering. The other is to accept your suffering, and concentrate on what you can do rather than on what you can no longer do. This leads to a calm mind.
We all want to be happy, We all want to have shelter, good food to eat. If I can help a genuine stranger in their ability to achieve this, that's great! Consider This question? What did your granddad do? One answer might be he drove a bus and went fly fishing or He helped 100s of people building a better life. He also drove a bus and went fly fishing. In the interest of honesty I have never drove anything bigger than a car. I went fishing once as a child, It involved use of a worm!